🌷🌺🌷SF & KF both are a must!
There are only two types of friends in our life,
1. Soulmate Friend (SF)
2. Karmic Friend (KF)
Both of them are
known as friends because they come in our life to push us towards prosperity and
success in their own way.
Now, the question
remains that how can we identify SF and KF.
A. Karmic friend
(KF): These are the friends whose friendship lasts from a minimum of 3 months
to the maximum of 3 years only. They will come in our life like butter all the
time appreciating our life style in front of us. They will even go to the
lengths of appreciating you weaknesses.
This will make us
think that they are the best possible things that can love us and care for us. They
will take promises to be with us for our entire life time, try to impress us by
all means.
But behind your
back they are the ones who will criticize us. They will keep their focus only
on how they can use us for their own selfish intentions like, promotion in
company, earn extra income by your contacts, get free knowledge which they will
use to run their commercial business, etc.
Once their
financial or carrier goal is achieved or they get a new life partner /
friend in their life they will leave you behind and not look back once. They
will even block you from contacting them in any way again ever.
These KF are the
kind of friend who teach you the real lessons in life - maturity, no
expectation, no flirting, not to judge a person by flattering words or his
looks and smile but to value their skills and wisdom.
The break off
with such people gives you insight and a strong will power to achieve and show
them your real worth.
In these
revengeful positive fight, you earn name, fame, money by leaving KF much behind
you.
So treat them as your
tough mentor and respect and thank god who gifted them in your life.
B. SOULMATE
FRIEND (SF) : They are in your life more than 5 years to life time. They will treat
you like a mirror but they will always praise you and appreciate you in public even
when you are not around.
They will support
you financially from paying your hotel bills to business loan, EMI etc.
They don’t have
any craving or thoughts of emotional and financial support from you.
They will take
all the efforts needed to uplift your life socially, financially and
emotionally.
They will never create
divides in your family but join your family members by their love, care and affection.
They never create
hurdles in the path of your success but always motivate and inspire you instead.
They work on your strengths and help you find a way to improve your weaknesses.
Unconditional
love and support, honesty, sincerity and caring attitude is in their genes
and blood.
Same SF always comes
right from our birth as friends, sibling, student, a spouse or a teacher.
Getting a
soulmate in a friend is nothing but god found in a human form in our life who
holds our finger in darkness and light and help us to reach our destination.
So check with
whom you are associated in your life SF or KF. Take a test by asking them two
questions:
A. Can you donate
your kidney to my mom who needs it immediately?
B. Can you lend me
an amount of 3 lakhs? I need it for the operation but I probably can’t
return it to you for a long time.
C. Don't respond to
his ‘Good morning’ or ‘Good night’ messages for 90 days and check weather he /
she continues to send wishes (without a single day gap)
If he passes the
three tests then he is your SF and if not he comes in KF.
Few may say on the
second test that that they are jobless and have no income so it is impossible
for them to bear operation expenses. Then ask them, if the same incidence would
have happened with their own mom whether they would have given the same reply
to the hospital or not.
KF are liars, you
will realize their side as well after taking a test.
So we all are
fortunate that we are associated with SF and KF in our lives and they are
helping us move ahead towards success.
(Courtesy: From my book - Journey from signature to Autograph)
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