🌷🌺🌷 What's my fault ??....

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Cases: Sir, we do so much for our family, relatives, friends and life partner. Despite all our efforts being genuine why don't they respond or reciprocate like we deserve? What is our fault?

Answer: Have you ever gone near a pond or a sea shore and thrown a stone in the water? Have you observed the ripples that are created as a result of the stone being thrown into the water?

These ripples are nothing but Vibrations and they are created on all four sides and not just on one side. Whether the stone thrown is small, large or medium, ripples are bound to be created depending upon the intensity of force the stone was thrown with.

When you are saying that your relationship with your parents, siblings or spouse is not good and you feel like you are not loved then they should first check the integrity of your own love. There maybe a lot of grudges, blame, complaints, criticisms, and lies that are standing in the way of your love towards one another. Even if you are living at a 1000 km distance the ripples of your hate and anger are bound to reach the other person and those vibrations touch their soul. Thus, they never truly express their affection towards you irrespective of what material comfort or flowery words you use for them when they are before you, irrespective of what so called spirituality you follow. At the end of the day, the vibes you give off are the only thing that matters.”

So my dear, before you point one finger at someone you will find the other four fingers pointing right back at you. Those four fingers are pointing at nothing but the blame, anger and regrets that we initially or unintentionally have towards another person in his absence. Nobody on this planet is bad or good. It's all our thoughts and perception of them that impart them a particular role in our life.

Walia thieves can be Valmiki and write the Ramayana  and also Brahman Rishi son Ravana can be a Rakshas diety. So as a self task, check yourself. Find out who it is your relationship is damaged with and analyse what kind of thoughts you possess towards them. What do you speak about them behind them, positive or negative? You will get the root of your weak relationship.

Just change your thoughts n start speaking positive about them even if they are at fault. And you will see the Miracles in your Relationship with that person.


(Courtesy: From my book - Journey from signature to Autograph) 


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