Happiness Attached to the Result Leads to Sadness 🌸🙏🏻🌸

 “Happiness Attached to the Result Leads to Sadness” 🌸🙏🏻🌸

"कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन"

“You have the right to perform your actions, but not to the fruits of those actions.”

– Bhagavad Gita

This timeless wisdom reminds us:

✨ Do your duty with full dedication, without becoming attached to the outcome. ✨

A few days ago, we received a distance healing request for a student appearing for the CA exam in May — his fifth attempt. The healing was for concentration, memory, focus, and success.

While speaking to the parents, we discovered a repeating pattern —

💔 After every unsuccessful attempt, the student would fall into depression for months...

🔇 He would isolate himself from family and friends

😞 Become introverted, negative, and non-communicative

If only that depression phase had been used as a self-reflection period, filled with…

🌟 proactive efforts

🌟 open communication

🌟 positive social connections

…then his vibrations might have shifted — possibly transforming failure into success long ago.

But here's the truth:

Most of us tie our happiness to results.

👉 “If I get married, I’ll be happy…”

👉 “If I pass the exam, I’ll be happy…”

👉 “If I get a job, child, promotion, or become debt-free — I’ll be happy…”

And when things don’t go as expected?

We retreat.

🚫 Remove our profile pictures

🚫 Post sad status messages

🚫 Stop responding to loved ones

🚫 Detach from spirituality, community, and healing practices

But why all this melodrama?

Because deep down, we crave attention, sympathy, and validation.

What’s needed instead?

🔍 Audit your habits

🧠 Rethink your thought patterns

📖 Reflect on your actions and mindset

💬 Seek better ways to grow

⚠️ Repeating the same thoughts and behaviors will only bring the same results.

So rather than cutting ties with people, God, or your spiritual path —

✂️ Cut the ties with outdated habits and limiting beliefs.

Because even when success finally arrives, if you’ve pushed everyone away…

Who will be left to celebrate it with you?

Marriage, jobs, exams, children — they bring momentary joy, not lasting fulfillment.

Think about it —

Do you feel the same joy about your 10th-grade results today as you did back then?

No.

Because with time, every milestone becomes just another memory.

💡 Your present is the outcome of your past.

💡 Your future will be shaped by today’s choices.

Even before birth, your soul chose this life — your parents, profession, and karmic path.

✨ You have free will.

✨ Your vibrations shape your reality.

✨ Your response to failure determines your next step.

Let’s look at another case:

A lady came for healing — unemployed.

Within 3 weeks, she got a job.

Later, her husband received healing for promotion and relocation.

Within 45 days, that too manifested.

Her faith deepened.

She enrolled in Lama Fera Healing, started donating, expressed daily gratitude.

Then, she brought her 76-year-old mother with kidney failure for healing.

But… after 45 days with no visible change, she disconnected.

❌ Stopped self-healing

❌ Left healing groups

❌ Withdrew from charity work

❌ Became isolated

Why?

She tied her happiness and faith to just one result.

She forgot all the blessings she and her family had already received through healing.

This is why people suffer — even those who do healing, yoga, or meditation.

Because they lack:

🙏🏼 Unshakeable faith

🙏🏼 Patience

🙏🏼 Consistency

🙏🏼 Gratitude without expectation

🌟 The moral of the story:

In your success, many have contributed.

In your failure, it’s your own beliefs and choices that led you there.

Choose awareness.

Choose inner transformation.

Choose a path of healing, not attachment.

👉 www.lamafera.com

🌸🙏🏻🌸 Let go of the outcome. Embrace the journey. 🌸🙏🏻🌸

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